Kathy Kiuna Speaks on Dating Again After Losing Husband Allan Kiuna

Lady Bishop Kathy Kiuna has finally spoken about a question many people have been asking her since the death of her husband, Allan Kiuna—whether she plans to date again.

Kathy lost her husband on July 9, 2024, after he battled cancer. The couple had been married for more than 30 years, building a strong and admired relationship that inspired many people across Kenya and beyond. Their love story was often seen as an example of commitment, faith, and partnership.

Since his passing, Kathy has continued to mourn him openly, sharing emotional tributes and memories. 

She has often spoken about how much she misses him and how difficult life has been without him. Despite her strength, she has not hidden the deep pain she continues to feel.

In a recent conversation with her daughter, Stephanie Kiuna, Kathy addressed the issue of dating again. Stephanie had invited her followers to send questions, and one of the most common ones was whether her mother was ready to move on and find companionship.

Stephanie asked her directly if she could ever see herself dating again—not to replace her late husband, but simply to have someone in her life. The question sparked an honest and emotional response from Kathy.

She admitted that many people have been asking her the same thing, but she is still not ready. According to her, the pain of losing her husband is still very fresh, and she has not even thought about being in another relationship.

“I’m hearing that a lot,” she said. “But I’m still so raw about losing my husband. It’s not something I have even considered at all.”

Kathy explained that the idea of dating has never crossed her mind since Allan passed away. She described the thought as too painful to even imagine at the moment. For her, healing is still ongoing, and she prefers to focus on her faith and personal growth.

She also made it clear that if she were ever to consider dating again, it would only happen if she felt strongly guided by God. She said she is fully committed to her spiritual journey and would need clear direction before making such a major decision.

“For me, I’m so sold out to God,” she explained. “He would have to speak very clearly for me to even think about it.”

Beyond the topic of dating, Kathy also spoke about grief and how people respond to loss differently. She revealed that during her mourning period, she has experienced judgment from some people who do not understand her process.

She encouraged others to be kind and avoid judging those who are grieving. According to her, everyone handles pain in their own way, and there is no single correct way to mourn a loved one.

“People grieve very differently,” she said. “Never judge someone for how they grieve.”

Her honest words have touched many people, especially those who have gone through loss. Kathy continues to inspire others by showing that healing takes time, patience, and faith.